Sexy Conversation Starters

Intro: Sexy conversations can be a great way to build connection and flirt with your partner or potential lover. Here are 20 creative and playful conversation starters to get the sparks flying.

1. What’s the naughtiest thing you’ve ever done? – This question helps to open up the conversation to more suggestive topics, like what kind of sexual experiences or fantasies your partner or potential lover may have.

2. What turns you on most? – This question is a great way to find out what your partner likes and what is likely to set them off in the bedroom.

3. If you had to choose, would you prefer a night of passion or a night of cuddles? – This conversation starter is a great way to get an idea of how your partner likes to show and express affection.

4. What’s the wildest place you’ve ever done it? – This is a fun conversation starter that can help lead you and your partner to sharing stories of risqué adventures.

5. What would your dream romantic getaway look like? – This is a great way to get creative and plan out what kind of sexy activities/escapes you and your partner can embark on.

6. What is your sexiest lingerie fantasy? – This can help you get an idea of what your partner likes and envisions when it comes to bedroom attire.

7. What do you find most attractive in a person? – This is a great way to get an idea of what your partner is looking for in a potential romantic interest.

8. What is your deepest sexual fantasy? – This can lead to some interesting conversations and further exploration of each other’s wants and needs in the bedroom.

9. If you were being really daring and naughty, what would you do? – This conversation starter allows for your partner to imagine themselves being adventurous and flaunt what they’d be willing to do in the bedroom.

10. Would you rather make love in a shower or a hot tub? – This can help you get an idea of where and how your partner would want to engage in sexy activities.

11. Tell me the most erotic dream you’ve ever had – This conversation starter allows for some interesting conversation that may lead you to who and what your partner finds attractive.

12. What do you think is the sexiest part of your body? – This conversation starter can be great way to give confidence to your partner and have them celebrate all the things they like about themselves.

13. What is the quickest way to make your heart race? – This is a fun and playful way to find out what kind of naughty things get your partner’s motor running.

14. What is the most pleasurable thing you like being done to you? – This can help you get an idea of what makes your partner really feel satisfied and give you new insight into how to please them.

15. Do you like when I’m slow and teasing or fast and hard? – This conversation starter can help you and your partner gauge each other’s preferences in the bedroom and discover what kind of speed or intensity works best.

16. Would you rather be in control or do you like surrendering to pleasure? – This convo can help you get an idea of what kind of power dynamics appeal to your partner most and allows you to explore taking turns in being in charge.

17. What sexual position do you like the most? – This can give you an idea of what kind of position your partner may enjoy most for intimacy.

18. If you were to direct a sexy film, what would it be about? – This is a fun conversation starter that can lead to some intriguing topics, such as what kind of setting, characters, and plot the film would have.

19. Have you ever fantasized about me? – This conversation starter can bring deeper levels of connection as it can lead to sharing suggestive thoughts about each other.

20. Do you like when I tease you or do you prefer getting straight to the point? – This conversation starter can give you an idea of when your partner would like to engage in some playful banter and when they just want to get straight to the action.