Intro: Pillow talk is a great way to connect with your significant other on a deeper and more intimate level. Here are 20 conversation starters that can help get the conversation rolling.
1. What do you value most in our relationship? – This conversation starter will get your partner to think about what they appreciate most in the relationship, creating a warm and passionate conversation.
2. What physical qualities do you find the most attractive in me? – This conversation starter gets your partner to focus on the physical aspects of the relationship while also expressing their admiration for you.
3. Do you have any fantasies you’d like to share? – This playful conversation starter will create an atmosphere of fun and intimacy as you both explore each other’s fantasies.
4. What was the best moment in our relationship? – This thought-provoking conversation starter gets your partner to reflect on the joyful moments in your relationship, and will make them remember why they fell in love with you.
5. What’s been the toughest challenge in our relationship? – A more serious and reflective conversation starter, this will help both partners become aware of the challenges and difficulties that you’ve faced in the relationship and can help you both work together on improving these issues.
6. What made you fall in love with me? – This classic conversation starter enables your partner to express what they love and appreciate most about you, creating a special moment of connection between the two of you.
7. What do you consider to be the ideal date night? – This conversation starter allows each partner to share what they consider to be the perfect date night, while also creating an opportunity to plan future dates together.
8. What would you change about our relationship if you could? – A more challenging conversation starter, this nevertheless enables both partners to discuss what they would like to change or improve in the relationship, creating an atmosphere of open communication.
9. What three words would you use to describe our relationship? – A creative conversation starter that encourages your partner to think about the feelings and emotions that your relationship invokes.
10. What do you think our strengths are as a couple? – Another thoughtful conversation starter that gets your partner thinking about the partnership and encourages them to express the strengths of your shared connection.
11. What was your favorite way that I’ve surprised you? – This conversation starter not only encourages you both to reminisce about your most fun and exciting moments, but also makes your partner feel appreciated for their kindness.
12. What is something you admire about me? – A personal conversation starter that allows your partner to express what they appreciate and admire most about you.
13. What personal goals do you have for the next year? – This conversation starter gets your partner thinking about their future ambitions and enables them to express these goals to you, creating a moment of more serious connection.
14. What do you think is the most romantic gesture I can do for you? – An opinion-based conversation starter that gets your partner to think of the most romantic and meaningful thing that you can do for them.
15. What do you think our relationship would look like in 10 years? – A thought-provoking conversation starter that encourages your partner to envision what the future may look like for the two of you.
16. What do you think makes us different from other relationships? – Another interesting conversation starter that gets your partner to compare and contrast your relationship with other relationships, helping them to see the unique aspects of your relationship.
17. What do you think is your biggest accomplishment in our relationship? – A conversation starter that gets your partner to reflect on the progress they have made in the relationship and to appreciate their own efforts and accomplishments.
18. What would you want me to do differently in our relationship? – A potentially challenging conversation starter, this will get your partner to reflect on the aspects of your relationship they would like to see improved, so that you can work together to improve different areas of the relationship.
19. What small act of love do you appreciate most? – A conversation starter that allows your partner to feel appreciated and loved, this encourages them to focus on the small but meaningful acts that create an intimate and special bond between the two of you.
20. What do you think we should do more of in our relationship? – An opinion-based conversation starter that gets your partner to think about the new activities and experiences that you can do together to bond, making your relationship even more meaningful.