Intro: Picking a conversation topic with a girl can be intimidating, but it doesn’t have to be! Here are twenty deep conversations starters to get the conversation flowing.
1. What do you believe to be the purpose of life? – Asking a deep, philosophical question such as this is a great way to get someone to reflect on the meaning of their life while engaging in a meaningful dialogue.
2. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be? – Getting someone to think outside the box and imagine a world where they have a bit of extra special something can unlock a vast world of potential conversations topics.
3. What are you most passionate about? – Getting to the heart of a person’s passions is a great way to get to know the real them and engage in a deep discussion about the things that really matter to them.
4. What are your thoughts on faith, religion and spirituality? – A controversial yet deeply engaging topic that never fails to get people talking.
5. What one moment from the past would you most like to relive? – Talking about the past always brings up interesting memories and stories and can really help to get people to open up about who they are and where they come from.
6. What do you think is the most important lesson life has taught you? – Genuinely curious about what life has taught someone, it can result in interesting stories and a deeper understanding of the other person.
7. What have been some of the darkest and brightest moments of your life? – A deep and emotionally loaded question, the highs and lows of someone’s life can lead to wonderful conversations.
8. If you could pick any job in the world, what would it be? – Talking about career aspirations is a great conversation starter, as it gets people to talk about what they want to achieve in life and how they can get there.
9. Whom do you admire most, and why? – One way to get to know someone better is to explore their values, and asking this question can help to deepen mutual understanding.
10. Who or what has had the greatest influence on your life? – With this question, you can get to know the back story of the person you are talking to and the key people who have helped shape who they are and why.
11. What does happiness look like to you? – Happiness is not the same for everyone, so asking someone about their definition and values associated with happiness is always an interesting starting point for deep conversations.
12. What do you like to do to relax? – Understanding how people unwind and decompress can provide a window into understanding the person better.
13. What, in your opinion, are the most important qualities in a friend? – Asking someone about the things that they look for in others can provide insight into the characteristics they think are important and showcase traits they value.
14. If you could make one positive change to the world, what would it be? – Exploring positive change and understanding of the world can be an interesting conversation, as it can uncover things that people prioritize and value.
15. Do you believe in absolutes or are there always two sides to every story? – Asking people to share their perspective on whether there is black and white or if there is always complexity to an issue can be an interesting exchange.
16. What does success mean to you? – Success is something that looks different for everyone, and getting a person to share their values and idea of success can unlock interesting stories and generate thought-provoking discussions.
17. What adventure would you love to go on if you had the time and resources to do it? – Getting people to think about exciting adventures is a great way to get them to open up about their dreams and desires for the future.
18. What would you do if you only had one year left to live? – A deeply philosophical conversation-starter, it can illicit interesting conversations and incite conversations on life, death, and the fragility of time.
19. In an ideal world, what would our education system look like? – Education is an incredibly important topic, and talking about the world people would like which prioritize learning, understanding and growth can be a powerful conversation to have.
20. What is something people think they know about you that isn’t true? – A conversation starter similar to the classic “what’s something about you that nobody knows”. This one encourages people to share misunderstandings about them, and the reasons behind why it may have led to such wrong assumptions.