Introduction: Having meaningful conversations with your partner is an important way to get to know each other and build a strong connection. Deep conversation starters can help to initiate these conversations and create a space for more meaningful discussions. Here are 20 conversation starters to get you started.
1. What did you dream about last night? – To open up a conversation about what thoughts have been going through each other’s minds recently.
2. Are you a night owl or an early riser? – To spark a conversation about individual preferences and personalities.
3. Who do you look up to most in your life and why? – To get to know who, and what values and traits, each other finds inspirational.
4. What is a goal that you are particularly proud of achieving? – To find out more about each other’s successes and to celebrate accomplishments.
5. What were you like as a child? – For reminiscing about childhood and past experiences and to gain a better understanding of each other.
6. What are your thoughts on the current state of politics? – To allow for a debate and discussion on current events that the two of you may have different opinions on.
7. What makes you feel content? – For a conversation about what activities and experiences bring joy to each other’s lives.
8. What were the most significant moments in your life so far? – To share memories, experiences, and reflect and boast on accomplishments.
9. What would be different about your life if you could go back in time? – To think about what lessons have been learned and what would be changed if given a chance.
10. What would be your dream vacation and why? – To get to know more of what each other’s hopes, dreams and ambitions are.
11. What type of job would make you the most fulfilled? – To gain understanding of what each other’s prospective hopes and dreams are and where they are headed.
12. If money and time weren’t an issue what would you like to do for a living? – To really gain insight into what each other truly desires in life, if any boundary was removed.
13. If you could go back and give advice to your younger self, what would it be? – To reflect on experiences and provide insight into what the lessons learned have been throughout life.
14. What is the best piece of advice you’ve been given? – To discuss some of the most impactful advice each other has received and reflect on how it has impacted their lives.
15. If you were given a blank cheque what would you do with it? – To think about what luxuries and experiences each other desires most.
16. What would be a perfect day to you? – To gain insight into what activities and experiences bring joy to each other’s lives.
17. What topics do you think the world would be better off discussing more of? – To spark conversations around important and informative topics.
18. What are your thoughts on religion? – To discuss personal and moral beliefs in a respectful manner.
19. What do you think are the biggest challenges modern society faces? – To build a greater understanding of current conditions and what can be done to make change.
20. If you could fix anything wrong with the world, what would you do? – To get to know what causes are important to each other and what actions could be implemented to make positive changes.