Introduction: Starting a conversation with someone you have a crush on can be intimidating. Here are 20 conversation starters that can help get you well on your way to a meaningful conversation.
1. What inspired you to follow your current career path? – Talking about career paths can be a great way to get to know someone and their motivations.
2. Who has been the most influential person in your life? – This can help you to get to know more about the other person, and how they interact with people they care about.
3. What do you believe is the meaning of life? – This conversation starter can lead to some deep conversations about philosophy, religion, or science.
4. Do you have any regrets in life? Why or why not? – Knowing about the things someone regrets and why can help you to get to know them more deeply.
5. If you could travel anywhere in the world tomorrow, where would you go? – This can tell you more about the places and cultures the other person is interested in.
6. What lessons have you learned from a past mistake? – Talking about mistakes and how you learn from them can be a great chance to learn more about someone’s resilience and problem-solving skills.
7. What do you think is the most important life value? – Talking about values can help you to get a better sense of who the other person is when it comes to their personal beliefs.
8. Are there any causes or social issues you feel strongly about? – Knowing what the other person is passionate about can give you a good insight into what they stand for.
9. How would you describe yourself in three words? – This conversation starter can get you a better understanding of how the other person views themselves.
10. What kind of relationships do you value the most? – Conversations about relationships and how people value them can give you a better understanding of what the other person is looking for in relationships.
11. What would your ideal day look like? – Asking this can tell you more about the type of activities and hobbies the other person likes to do.
12. Do you have any goals for the future? – This can tell you more about the type of dreams and goals the other person has.
13. What makes you feel the most fulfilled in life? – Knowing what the other person is passionate and excited about in life can help you to get to know them better.
14. If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be? – Knowing what the person wants to change about themselves can help you to get to know them better.
15. What kind of advice would you give your younger self? – Asking this can give you a better insight into the type of wisdom the person has when it comes to life.
16. What would you do if you had a day with no constraints or responsibilities? – Asking this can tell you more about the type of activities the other person would enjoy doing.
17. If you could go back in time, who would you like to meet? – Knowing who the person admires can tell you more about their interests and aspirations.
18. What is your definition of true happiness? – This conversation starter can help to get to know more about how the person perceives happiness and what it means to them.
19. What challenges have you faced in life, and how did you overcome them? – Talking about challenges can be a great way to get to know someone better.
20. If you could learn any new skill, what would it be? – Asking this can tell you more about the type of goals and interests the other person has.