Intro: So you have made it through swiping, matching and starting a conversation on Tinder. Congratulations! Now comes the challenging part—keeping the conversation flowing. Here is a list of 20 conversation starters to help you get started.
1. If you could have a superpower, which one would you pick? – It’s a fun topic people can easily relate to and go into extended conversations about.
2. What was the most memorable movie you watched so far this year? – It gives insight into what they appreciate in terms of movies, and you can share your own thoughts on the matter.
3. If money was no object, what hobby would you pursue? – A fun question to get to know their dreams, and you can both discover new and interesting hobbies.
4. What is the craziest thing you have ever done? – It’s a great icebreaker, that can lead to some amusing tales.
5. What are some things you are really passionate about? – It paints a picture of their interests and values, and so you get to know them a bit better.
6. What kind of adventures excite you the most? – Showing off your adventurous side, and also helps evaluate their taste in adventure.
7. Who has been the biggest influence in your life so far? – It is a great way to learn about their family, friends and relationships.
8. What is the most important lesson you have learned in life? – A thoughtful and insightful question that goes beyond the surface Level.
9. Are there any causes that you are most passionate about? – Another window into their interests, as well as a window into their passions.
10. In what ways do you like to have fun? – A lighthearted question that helps you learn about their personal preferences for leisure.
11. What is one thing you have always wanted to do? – It may not be something they can now pursue, but it gets them dreaming.
12. What do you think are the qualities that make a good friend? – A sincere question that can put the conversation into a deeper level.
13. If you could go anywhere in the world, where would you go? – Who doesn’t like daydreaming about one’s ideal vacation or future getaway?
14. What has been your most embarrassing moment? – An entertaining conversation starter that is sure to bring some laughs.
15. What do you think is the most important thing in a relationship? – A more serious question that puts the conversation onto another tangent.
16. What is the craziest thing you want to do in your lifetime? – A great question to spark some fun conversations, as well as spark some surprise.
17. What is one thing you would do if you knew you would not fail? – A question that taps into their aspirations and gets them thinking about potential possibilities.
18. What have you learned from your past relationships? – A deep and thought-provoking question that can bring up some interesting answers.
19. What is the nicest thing someone has ever done for you? – A lighthearted question that can put the conversation in a more positive direction.
20. What is the best advice you have ever been given? -A good question that can make for some interesting responses and is sure to be entertaining.